What have our children become?

The Star reported on 21/7/2007
Education Minister to investigate the slapping of 22 primary school pupils for failing to turn in their homework.

13 girls and 9 boys of year four were slapped by their headmistress for not submitting their homework. Wonder why these pupils did not finish their homework. Aren’t they suppose to do so? Why were their parents not monitoring their school work?

During my time, when given a piece of homework, I never failed to neglect mine. With my eyes hardly able to open, my mind in dreamland, I struggled on well past midnight to complete them. And there sitting on the chair besides me was my mother, urging me on “faster, faster, finished you can sleep”. No bed for me if I did not finish. No escaping either, I had to pass it up the next day.

How many mothers today ever practice this? Just a handful. Most leave it to the tuition teachers.

There is another report by The Star on 13/7/2007
Teacher to be suspended after student’s complaint

A student, aged 13 “claimed that a male teacher punched her twice on her face after she used vulgar words against him”. We, at no time ever spoke up against our teachers let alone used vulgarity in school. Children are different presently. They possess a mind of their own.

It is so hard to be a teacher today. Whatever you do is never right. Why? Today, parents are too irresponsible to ever care about the welfare of their children. Instead they tend to protect, defend and pamper their children too much. Parents just cannot manage nor control their children anymore than they can control themselves. Parents have set bad examples and their children have imitated them. I thought at home, parents are supposed to educate and discipline their children. When in school, teachers are supposed to educate and discipline them. If children misbehaved in school shouldn’t the educational system allow teachers to right their ways. At school, children are no longer afraid of their teachers, at home they no longer respect their parents. What have our children become?

Is our society telling our children that it is normal and acceptable for them to use bad language. That they need not worry, they will be protected by the law. Their teachers could not punish them anymore. If their teachers become violent, probably they could be sacked, suspended or they would be subjected to 'proper' treatment. What type of treatment? My guess is, psychiatric.

If parents have time to educate and discipline their children, children will not employ vulgarity in their speech. They will not run away from home. They will not abuse themselves on drugs. They will not kill another. They will not practice vandalism. They will not become victims of the sex trade. They will not loiter during school hours. They will not resort to extortion and bullying. They will not frequent undesirable websites. And they will not kill their own parents.

A teacher’s job at present is to teach. Let the parents discipline their children.

Salary Revision

I received my increment letter yesterday. It was a surprise as I was not asked to fill up the appraisal form. With the numerous complaints and discontented faces around, it is evidently no one is happy and satisfied with what was given. Some of us get as low as RM30.00 which is supposed to spur and motivate us further in our work. Instead it has cast us all into the realm of despair. Most of us feel unappreciated.

I will blog the first paragraph of our letter here to remind me in future of how the management can be very unfeeling and uncaring,

“Despite the fact that our company has made a loss last year, we have decided to revise your salary with the hope of motivating you to spare every effort to contribute to the future success of the organization.”

This is indeed a very chivalrous and gracious letter. Making a loss yet a revision of salary for all. But it is so deceiving.

Before taxation our company's audited accounts showed a nett profit of RM300,000.00 last year. The executive director took home a substantial fee. Its subsidiary did fairly well last year too.

I feel that the profits made was poorly distributed around. Greed and selfishness leads to the monopolization of the profits. Everyone has a share in contributing to the profits in the company. Everyone has the right to it. Everyone sweat to drill for sales. Everyone should be awarded for the effort.

Maybe World Vision should knock at my director’s door so that he will be blessed further IF he contributes.

Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows

I do not know why I bought this book. Perhaps it must be the challenge to possess a book that is cheaper than the “normal” price. The price difference of RM40.00 between the book sellers and the hypermarkets is remarkable. Knowing that this is the last of the series of Harry Potter’s books, this hardcover peddles at an exorbitant price of RM109.90 at the major book stalls while Tesco and Carrefour demand theirs merely at RM69.90. And the booksellers are ganging up to boycott “Harry Potter”.

Now, this keeps me wonder. Are booksellers overpricing books at their stalls? Penguin, the book distributor, claimed hypermarkets “would incur losses …that their purchase price was actually higher”. The book price is £17.99.

From my point of view, books in Malaysia are expensive. If they are not, why are books selling so cheap during the annual warehouse sales. Are booksellers making a loss then? No, I do not think so, it is just they are making less profit. Nobody sells at a loss unless he is bankrupt.

There are a total of 607 pages with 36 chapters plus one last chapter. And the first paragraph of the last chapter reads as follows:-

Autumn seemed to arrive suddenly that year. The morning of the first of September was crisp and golden as an apple, and as the little family bobbed across the rumbling road towards the great, sooty station, the fumes of car exhausts and the breath of pedestrians sparkled like cobwebs in the cold air. Two large cages rattled on top of the laden trolleys the parents were pushing; the owls inside them hooted indignantly, and the red-headed girl trailed tearfully behind her brothers, clutching her father’s arm.

And the conclusion of this book reads as:

The scar had not pained Harry for nineteen years. All was well.

Now I know why everyone is so crazy about Harry Potter. J.K. Rowlings has this literacy talent to catch her readers’ attention and persuasively impel them to continue reading further.

Whether who died or who did not, I will have to read my copy to find out. To figure out this last sentence, you will have to find out yourself.

When I bought mine at Carrefour, Subang Jaya, their staff were carefully arranging the books nicely at the book counter. I even got a FREE Disney Jiggly Light Up Pen! So cute and so appreciative.

Worth the effort of parking myself at their entrance before opening time. I got mine are you going to get yours too? I am excited.... to start my book.

The Will

My office phone rang at 8.21 am this morning. Thinking... it must be my boss checking up on me. Whenever she is away from office, she will ring me as early as 8 am, although we punch in at 8.30 am. But it was my mum informing me that her brother has passed away. His body was cold and stiff when his son went into his room to wake him up. Death was so sudden for him. It should be a peaceful crossover for he has recently changed his will.

When my boss was hospitalized recently as a result of a snatch thief robbery at Taman Megah, Petaling Jaya, members of her family were mobilized. They need not worry, I informed them. All her credit cards and bank accounts have been freezed by us. Yet they were all frantic. They do not know what the extent of her wealth is. Has she made any provisions?

Drawing up a will is so difficult for me. Shall I engaged a lawyer or shall I approach Rockwill. Whom shall I leave "my things" to? One thing is obviously clear. I do not wish to leave it to undesirable people. I rather bequest everything I own to charity or church. My brother will, without doubt, benefit from my departure. But what will happen after he is gone later? Can I include a clause to provide for those who are second-in-line? Will this clause supersedes his will?

This is so hard a decision to make. I know it is not much, why the fuss? But it is still "my things". I want to close my eyes and smile instead of people laughing at me. Guess, I have to go around asking for I/C numbers for a start. How to go about it? Shall I say, hey, I am making a will and I want to include you in it. Give me your I/C.

Life will be so beautiful after that. Everybody will be buttering my bread every minute of my life. They will be sinking their teeth into their lips and be my slaves instead of being their natural selves. On the other hand, this news might burden them and they might feel uncomfortable with me. No I do not want this to happen. I will be so miserable.

The wall between life and death is so very thin. To cross over is so easy. But I am not ready for that journey to the next realm. I like it here.

Now the will, what steps should I take and when should I take that step.

I felt cheated

Last year on March 15, I purchased the Korean Drama "Save your last dance for me" from a video stall at S & M shopping mall in Kuala Lumpur. This drama series comes in a box set with a postcard which has to be returned to the local distributor to redeem a "complimentary imported original soundtrack & MV". You have to fill in your particulars, answer the requested questions, attach the original sales receipt, enclose a RM1.00 stamped A4 sized white envelope and sent them to the distributor, Multimedia Entertainment Sdn Bhd in Kelang.

As the CD comes in a plastic casing and the possibility of breakage is most likely, I phoned their office to arrange for my courier service to pickup the package from their office on a reverse-charged basis. A Miss Ling attended to my call. She could not entertain my request. Then, could I collect it from their office personally? No, to this too. They have several promotions going on at the time and would only send out the CDs when the promotional period is over in May. I checked with them after their promotional period ended. I was informed the complimentary CDs were sent out.

Now, a year later I am still waiting for my complimentary OST.

Sometimes, I wonder whether they genuinely sent these complimentary CDs to their customers. By holding these CDs back, the company can sell them separately. And also the RM1.00 they stand to gain. If a customer wishes to collect the CD personally, what is the fuss? This is a great disappointment to me and I have since decided not to purchase any Korean drama series from this unethical distributor.

I wonder whether any of you out there encounter a similar problem like mine. Should we tolerate this kind of practice?

Shock from an operating theatre

This is something real shocking and unbelievable. It looks like an operating theatre. From what I see, there were no "other surgical staff" in attendance. When did this take place? Was she fully aware of what was going on? Was she unconscious or just too numb under the influence of a mild anaesthetic or was she high on passion drugs.

Or a hospital romance between two unhappy and frustrated individuals. Can't fathom this out. If this was something between an unsuspecting patient and a sex maniac doctor/staff, then this case needs to be investigated.


Now you know why your child does not look like your husband. Now you know why you got veneral diseases or aids when both you and your husband are "clean". Now you know why one of your indentical twins is different from the other. Now you know why your child looks like your gynae. Now you know why your child's character differs from you and your husband.

Pirated ATM Machines

"Busan police unveiled fake ATM machines seized from a criminal gang that used the bogus machines to steal card holder information from users. "

Found this interesting news report from JoongAng Daily dated 4 July 2007. I have heard of fake notes, imitation prescription drugs, fakes eggs, cloned computers, cloned animals now ATM machines.